Immortal Monday Hosts The Midnight Novelist and Aphrodite

Valentine’s Day is only two days away! That makes it fitting to have the goddess most associated with love as our topic here today on Immortal Monday. And it has been long overdue that this series embrace some mighty girl power! I’ve wanting to do that for some time now. I am tickled pink that the beautiful and talented Karen Rought, known to many as The Midnight Novelist, has graciously offered to host this special event. I met Karen only a short time ago when we embarked upon our Row80 challenge. From the beginning we hit it off and now, here we are! Karen has a great love for art and Greek mythology, and she’s eager to share with us a little of her knowledge right now. With no further ado, I hand everything over to her. The floor is now yours, Karen.

I’d like to sincerely thank Debra for allowing me to contribute to Immortal Monday. This is one of my favorite series to read, and I just couldn’t pass up an opportunity to talk about one of my all-time favorite subjects: Greek mythology! I hope you all enjoy this post as much as I enjoy reading Debra’s.


Aphrodite – the goddess of love. What an iconic figure. Her image and name are everywhere in our society: cupid on Valentine’s Day (that’s Eros, her son), Venus razors (“reveal the goddess in you”), and it doesn’t take a genius to see where the word “aphrodisiac” comes from.

So, do we really know her as well as we think we do? She’s often portrayed as finicky, vain, and jealous. She’s lustful and lures men into her open arms. You wouldn’t be wrong by stating this is true. But you might be surprised that she wasn’t always like this. For better or for worse, Aphrodite’s image has evolved right alongside the rest of us.

There are two distinct versions of Aphrodite’s birth. The most famous one tells us that she was born when Cronus castrated his father Uranus. As the pieces fell into the sea, Aprhodite was born of the foam and drifted to shore on a seashell. In this sense, we can understand why she is associated with lust and sex.

The Birth of Venus via

However, there’s another story to be told about her creation. This one involves two gods – Zeus and Dione, a mother goddess. Her birth here was simple and normal (if you can call the birth of a goddess such a thing). The Aphrodite from this story, which some scholars actually consider a separate entity all together, is often looked upon as the people’s goddess. She’s not as heavenly as her counterpart, and a little bit more common.

Either way, Aphrodite did turn out to be quite an independent and manipulative woman. One story tells us how she was forced to marry Hephaestus, the ugly and crippled god of blacksmithing. Well, that didn’t stop her. She went on to have many affairs (as so many of them did), her most famous one being with Ares, the god of war.

Hephaestus loved his wife and gave her many gifts to show his appreciation, but Aphrodite obviously wasn’t satisfied. She loved Ares and even had four children by him: Deimos (Terror), Phobos (Fear), Harmonia (Harmony), and Eros (Sexual Love). Nothing was hidden from Helios, the sun god, and when he spotted the affair, he immediately told Hephaestus. Hephaestus crafted a bronze net and hung it above the lovers’ bed to capture them. When he did, he put the couple on display for all of the other gods and goddesses to laugh at.

Aphrodite - The Famous Venus de Milo

But Aphrodite wasn’t deterred and eventually went on to have affairs with others, including mortals like Adonis and Anchises. Adonis was killed by a jealous Ares, and sent to the Underworld. Aphrodite appealed to Zeus, and Adonis was allowed to spend half his time with Persephone (Hades’ wife) and half his time with Aphrodite. Even Anchises didn’t get off unpunished. He was sworn to secrecy about the affair he had with the goddess, but accidentally let it slip one night when he was drunk. As a result, he was blinded by Zeus.

 (She really, really liked people with names that start with “A” apparently.)

In another story, we see just how cunning Aphrodite could be. Eris, the goddess of discord, was upset that she wasn’t invited to a party that Zeus threw for Achilles’ parents. As revenge, Eris threw a golden apple into the middle of the party and right at the feet of three of the most important goddesses: Athena, Hera, and Aphrodite. The apple was marked, “To the Fairest.”

Naturally, they argued over who should get the apple. Zeus, being the smart man that he was, refused to call judgment on the matter. (You see, Hera was his sister and his wife, Athena was his daughter, and Aphrodite was either his daughter or his aunt, depending on which story you go by.) Instead, he called for Paris to make the decision. Paris was a mortal, but he was considered to be the most beautiful man on earth. What better person to decide who was the most beautiful goddess, right?

Each goddess bribed Paris with what she thought he might like best. Hera offered to make him King of Europe and Asia. Athena offered him skill and victory in war. Aphrodite offered him the love of the most beautiful woman in the world – Helen of Troy. But this is the clincher: in many of the stories, Aphrodite was the only one who showed up stark naked.

Three guesses who Paris chose.

The only problem? Helen was married to Menelaus, the king of Sparta. When she ran off with Paris, tensions between Greece and Troy escalated.  Thus, the Trojan War began.

Aphrodite - Archaic

Now, all of these examples point to one thing – Aphrodite’s open sexuality and often liberal behavior. But what if I told you she hadn’t always been like this? Would you believe me?

Surprisingly, Archaic Greek evidence depicts a fully clothed, veiled, and stern Aphrodite. She’s often shown with her children, such as Eros. This means that she wasn’t always associated with the erotic, but with conservative reproduction for the sake of procreation. In fact, in Roman mythology she was often worshipped in the spring as a fertility figure and a patron of gardeners.

So, why did Aphrodite change? Or, perhaps a better question would be: why did we change Aphrodite? What was the purpose of transforming her from mother to temptress? Any thoughts?


Fantastic, Karen! Very informative. I would step forward to answer your questions, but I think we should leave it open for the readers. Now, it wouldn’t be a typical Immortal Monday unless we did something fun, right? Aphrodite turned heads and had men quarrelling over her. She made a name for herself in more ways than one. For Aphrodite’s photo montage I present to you…

You know you’re famous when…

They build a temple in your honor.

They erect statues in your likeness.

They paint your image - then...

...and now.

You get your own stamp.

They name a butterfly after you.

Artists, everywhere, continue to sketch your image.

Your name graces amazing jewels.

You're immortalized as a cartoon. Both sultry & kick butt.

You still get screen presence. Both big and small.

They name kick @$$ boots after you! Woot woot!

You make it beyond mythology in the book section.

You are a stage show baby!

Dolls pop up looking like you (sort of).

You become the image for many brides-to-be.

Fashion designers turn to you for inspiration at all occasions.

Valentino names a bag after you.

You have your own line of luxury resorts.

 and finally…

Barbie finds you worthy of her line. Not once...

...or twice...

...but three times!

Damn girl! You are famous!

Hope you enjoyed this post as much as I did. As well as found the ways Aphrodite has influenced our culture equally interesting. May I be the first one is saying, thank you, Karen for a wonderful post. I was honored to have you here today. *Stands and applauds*

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You can find Karen Rought (A.K.A. The Midnight Novelist) hanging around her lovely blog, talking about art, history, music and writing. She loves people and making new friends. She’ll easily strike up a conversation with you if you look her up on twitter. And you should! Karen is currently working on her first novel .

 While you are here, I invite you to check out other Immortal Mondays if you haven’t already.

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About Debra Kristi

Debra Kristi is a mother, an author, a Pinterest addict, and sometimes DIY home decorator. Hang with her to escape the everyday stress. Be sure to leave your mind open to the fantastical.
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47 Responses to Immortal Monday Hosts The Midnight Novelist and Aphrodite

  1. Karen Rought says:

    Thank you again for having me, Debra! Those images at the end always crack me up!

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  3. Fabulous job, ladies! I had totally forgotten the two stories of Aphrodite’s birth. And congratulations, Karen, in joining the insanity of those who write!

  4. susielindau says:

    I am loving those boots! . The historical perspective was so encompassing! Go Aphrodite~

  5. Okay, first of all, how did I miss that third Barbie! Must order one today. Second, OMG I need that Valentino purse!

    I’m done being materialistic, now I can focus on the post, which is fabulous! What a badass Aphrodite was. I don’t think I knew two-thirds of this stuff! Too much fun.

    • Debra Kristi says:

      Yes, you must find that last Barbie! 😀 And that bag is way too cute!

      Aphrodite was a ground setter in girl power. Just imagine what she would be like today. I think Karen should write that novel. 😉 The modern day Aphrodite.

    • Karen Rought says:

      I’m so glad I could teach you some more about her! And Debra – that’s a dangerous thing to say. Now the wheels are turning. Uh oh!

  6. Love it! Love the pics too. I’ve always been fascinated by Greek mythology. Fun post. Have to confess I giggled the most over the “coming out of the writer’s closet” comment lol. Yes, Karen, you are a writer! It’s official. 😉

    • Debra Kristi says:

      Ha ha! Thanks Melinda, but that wasn’t supposed to be there! Doh! That was a heads up for me that something was wrong. Thank you. WP didn’t save when I last made my changes and scheduled it to post. Grrr. I’ve been getting a lot of “Can’t do it at this time” errors from them. Apologies to Karen. That wasn’t the draft she approved. 😦 Everything is all fixed now. But yes, Karen is a writer. That is for sure!

    • Karen Rought says:

      I’ve been so confused about those comments! Thanks for clearing it up, LOL! Glad you enjoyed the post, though, Melinda!

  7. How did she change? What’s all this then, can’t a girl change her mind once in a while???

  8. Kim Griffin says:

    This was a great post. I learned lots of new things about Aphrodite! I love mythology, so I’m always checking out your immortal Monday 😉

    I read it to my kids too (well most of it, lol) and they also thought it was interesting. ..aaaaand…they’ve added Aphrodite Barbie to their birthday lists… Ha!

    Love it!

    • Debra Kristi says:

      And who wouldn’t want an Aphrodite Barbie? LOL Why didn’t they have cool Barbies like that when I played with them? Kids today have way cooler (stuff).

      Wasn’t Karen extremely informative? I didn’t know much about Aphrodite before she presented me with her piece. She is responsible for educating me. Hehehe

    • Karen Rought says:

      Wow! That is seriously one of the best things I’ve heard today. I’ve always felt much older than I am, and I’ve always been interested in things most people my age (23 years old) don’t even register on their radar. Knowing that you’ve shared this with your kids – and that they enjoyed it – makes me feel amazing. All of my younger cousins couldn’t care less about Greek mythology – so I’m glad yours enjoyed it! (Go Aphrodite Barbie!)

  9. The Birth of Aphrodite paintings is one of my absolute favorites! And I’ve always loved her story. Who knew she was so darn famous elsewhere?? Thanks for the fab post, ladies. A perfect pre-Valentines treat!

    • Karen Rought says:

      This is my favorite painting from Boticelli, and probably my favorite one of her birth. I just HAD to include it in the post! Thanks for reading, and I’m glad you enjoyed it. 🙂

  10. Emma says:

    I love reading Greek mythology. Thanks for this.

  11. Rob Adams says:

    She was a software splash screen model, too!

    Trend of Design, according to Illustrator Splash Screens

    Having used Illustrator since version “88,” your article brought back memories.

  12. Fab post ladies. I learn something every time I come here.

  13. Like Louise, I learn something every Monday. I had never heard the two different versions either. And I’m not sure HOW I missed the whole Barbie thing…my daughter was really into them for a long time. If I show her those boots, guess what will be on her Christmas list this year? 🙂

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  15. I’m joining Debra in the standing ovation for Karen!

    Fabulous post – interesting, informative and well written. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, Karen. I consider myself a mythology nut so this was a real treat for me

  16. mj monaghan says:

    Very informative and interesting, Karen. I love Greek mythology, but will admit that my Aphrodite knowledge was pretty skimpy compared to what I just read. Oh, and don’t forget her love for large, curly hair – the “Aphro” – hehehe!

    • Karen Rought says:

      Thank you!! I’ll admit that my knowledge of Aphrodite is a little lacking compared to some of the others, but it was a lot of fun to write anyway. (I’m an Athena girl myself.) And that is a HILARIOUS connection. Gold star for you!!

    • Debra Kristi says:

      MJ, you’re so fun! Thanks for stopping in. 😉 So glad Immortal Monday could bring a little more knowledge your way.

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  20. tedstrutz says:

    I am standing and applauding, right now!

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